The passing of a loved one also means the passing of possessions. Yes, that means photos and china, glass and silver, but in my case it means the transfer of a collection of well chosen art works that were cherishes by those in my family who acquired them.
As an artist myself, I have a visceral attraction to certain works. The feeling of their surfaces, their design and my imagined meanings of these objects are sacred to me. I feel the treasures are entrusted to me for my lifetime and hope they will always find a home as honored as the one I intend to give them.
I think I feel so intensely about this aspect of memorializing family because my whole life is about the visual arts. I hope to raise money to sponsor a public art mural of some kind in honor of my mother and father and eventually I would like to show the these pieces, which include pre-columbian ceramics, wooden African artifacts and contemporary works.
My mother's ashes will be scattered on the ocean after she
serves her final wish giving her body to science. But these things of beauty and her short stewardship of them continue to give me great pleasure and will be a pleasure for generations in the future.
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| My mother Florence was a great supporter of SDVAN. She proofed many of my articles for years and encouraged me in this project. She even left a mention in her will that if all of her children and descendant were to pass before her, then her worldly good would go to the non-profit SDVAN. |
Florence Meyerson Frischer, age 96, passed away on March 5,
2017 in Cardiff-by-the-Sea, California. Florence was born on June 28, 1920, in
Council Bluffs, Iowa. She was the daughter of Mary Falk and Herman
Meyerson. She was married to George K. Frischer for 34 years until
his death in 1976. She lived in Kansas City, Missouri, during her
marriage, and later moved to Cathedral City, California. Florence attended
Abraham Lincoln High School and the University of Nebraska, where she was a
member of Sigma Delta Tau sorority. She was preceded in death by
her parents, her husband and her sisters Mildred, Gwendolyn, and Pearl. She is
survived by her daughters Dion Frischer (husband Robert De Young) and Patricia
Frischer (husband Darwin Slindee), and by her granddaughter Marissa Frischer
Sisk (husband Joseph Sisk), as well as by many nieces and nephews and friends.
Florence had a passion for golf, the French language, cooking and
entertaining, bridge, mah jongg, and watching NFL football. She dedicated many
hours to volunteering at the Children’s Discovery Museum of the Desert in Rancho
Mirage, California, and created there an innovative donation program. Florence
was an intelligent, generous, and lively woman, who taught us to live and love
well. The family wishes to thank the caring and compassionate staff and
caregivers at Belmont Village, Cardiff, California. Florence
donated her body for medical purposes to the University of California at San
Diego Medical School. The family requests that any memorial
contributions be made to the San
Diego Visual Arts Network.
